I love Fall. It’s my favorite season. The leaves are turning beautiful, vibrant yellows, oranges, and reds. The air is crisp. Christmas movies are starting to air and yes I love the cheesy Hallmark Christmas movies. And now that I’m a mommy, it makes Fall so much better. This is my first fall with my sweet little girl. She’ll be one year old soon and seeing her experience my favorite season for the first time has been amazing.
Fall is also what I like to call “cuddle season”. As the weather starts turning, and the holidays are starting to approach, it all feels so romantic. Is this why there are so many summer babies? ? This is also my first Fall as a divorced lady. I never thought I’d be divorced. I thought I was wise and would choose the right person, but life has a way of surprising us sometimes. I am officially divorced, and the world is currently suffering from a pandemic brought on by COVID-19, so I am very very single! And during these times, especially as we approach the holidays, it can feel lonely. Many people experience loneliness and depression, especially during this pandemic. Just remember that you are not alone and tomorrow is always a new day.
While I have an incredibly active one-year-old keeping me too busy to be lonely this year, I certainly wish I had someone special to spend the holidays with. Someone to make a cup of hot cocoa with, curl up together on the couch and watch a movie. But the reality is, I am single so I will not have that this year.
When I find myself wishing I had someone, I remind myself that I am much happier as a divorcée this year than I was last year with my abusive husband. I’ve never felt as lonely as I did married. And I’m much closer to finding the love of my life now that I’m available than when I was married. Remember that life’s adventures come in waves. Right now, you may be in a very sad and lonely wave, but it will pass. Hang in there and try to focus on the positives that are happening in your life. I hope everyone is enjoying these beautiful fall colors as much as I am this year!?
